10-11 December 2026

MEET YOUR SHADOW

Understanding the Hidden Patterns that Shape your Life

A Two-Day Journey into Authenticity, Self-Acceptance & Inner Freedom

Learn how unconscious patterns are formed, why they continue to shape your life, and how to meet these hidden parts with curiosity, rather than judgment.

A woman in a checkered dress and black heels walking through a brightly lit area, casting a sharp shadow on the white tiled floor.
A woman in a checkered dress and black heels walking through a brightly lit area, casting a sharp shadow on the white tiled floor.

Every one of us has parts we hide. The angry part. The insecure part. The people-pleaser. The perfectionist. The jealous part. The one afraid of rejection. These hidden aspects, some that we hide on purpose, others that we are not even aware we are hiding, are called "shadows".

One way or the other, our shadows quietly influence our relationships, work, confidence, and emotional wellbeing, more often than not without us realising it. Rather than something to eliminate, our shadows contain lost energy, creativity, strength, and authenticity waiting to be reclaimed.

Through guided self-reflection, practical psychological frameworks, group exercises, embodied practices, journaling, and carefully facilitated group processes, you'll begin transforming self-criticism into self-awareness and greater emotional freedom.

Understanding the Shadow

  • What shadow work is and why it matters

  • How the hidden parts of ourselves develop

  • Conscious and unconscious patterns

  • Why we reject certain parts of ourselves

Understanding Ourselves

  • How shame shapes the way we relate

  • Fear of rejection and being judged

  • The inner critic and self-protection

  • Developing emotional courage and self-acceptance

Seeing Our Patterns

  • Triggers and what they reveal

  • Projection and the people who activate us

  • Recurring patterns in relationships

  • Recognizing when we react rather than choose

Integration & Authenticity

  • Meeting hidden parts with curiosity and compassion

  • Moving beyond self-judgment and perfection

  • Reclaiming disowned qualities and strengths

  • Practical tools for greater awareness and authentic living

“Gonçalo led this wonderful workshop with love and care. My partner and I gained great insight and tools that have benefited our relationship. Highly recommended for anyone looking to deepen their relationships. Gonçalo is a great facilitator who provides a very safe container to share deeply and honestly.”

Stephen (July 2026)
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Black and white photo of two people standing on a flat surface, casting shadows on the ground.

The parts of ourselves we hide shape our lives a lot deeper than we think.

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Workshop Experience

This is an experiential workshop that combines psychological insight with practical exercises in a supportive and confidential environment. You can expect a balanced mix of:

  • Guided teachings and discussions

  • Personal reflection and journaling

  • Partner and small-group exercises

  • Embodiment and mindfulness practices

  • Group sharing (always by invitation, never by obligation)

  • Integration practices to help bring your insights into daily life

No previous experience with shadow work or psychology is required.

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Who Is This Workshop For?

Anyone who wants to understand themselves more deeply and create lasting inner change. Especially valuable if you:

  • Notice recurring patterns in your relationships that you can’t yet explain

  • Struggle with self-criticism, people-pleasing, perfectionism, or self-doubt

  • Feel triggered by certain people or situations and want to understand why

  • Are interested in personal growth and emotional wellbeing

  • Want to live with greater authenticity, confidence, and self-acceptance

  • Have experience with personal development and wish to deepen your self-awareness

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Facilitator

Gonçalo Luz is a yoga teacher and facilitator of experiential workshops exploring connection, intimacy, embodiment and personal growth. Drawing from years of facilitating men’s work, intimacy, body work and traditional hatha yoga, he combines embodied practices, reflection, dialogue and practical exploration to create spaces where participants can move beyond concepts and experience meaningful change in themselves and their relationships.

Have a question?

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What You Will Leave With

  • A clearer understanding of your hidden relationship patterns

  • Practical tools for expressing yourself honestly

  • Greater confidence in setting and respecting boundaries

  • The ability to stay present when things feel uncomfortable

  • A more compassionate relationship with yourself

  • New ways of relating without performing, pleasing or withdrawing

  • A clearer sense of how you want to show up in your relationships

Ready to move beyond self-judgment and into greater freedom?

  • "A well structured workshop aimed at enhancing communication and connection in relationships."

    Stephen (July 2026)

  • "Great environment, great teacher, and a great group!"

    Wesley (July 2026)

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Investment

  • Early Bird (until 1 month before)
    3,900 THB per person

  • Regular Price
    4,900 THB per person

Couples Offer

  • Early Bird (Couple)
    7,200 THB (Save 600 THB)

  • Regular (Couple)
    9,000 THB (Save 800 THB)

Limited places available. Advance registration required.

Location

SACRED GROUNDS CNX

A peaceful workshop space surrounded by nature in Nam Phrae, Hang Dong, offering a grounded and welcoming environment for meaningful connection, reflection, and learning.

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Next workshop dates

December 10-11 2026

March 13-14 2027

What could change in your life if you understood the patterns that are shaping you?